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Sep. 10, 2010

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When my boyfriend and I have sex we don't use protection, but right before he ejaculates, he pulls out. I know that you answered a question saying that it is likely to get pregnant even if he does pull out, but I haven't become pregnant yet. But a couple of times, he ejaculated in me and I didn't get pregnant. Could it be because I haven't had an orgasm or am I infertile?

I've just turned 11, but I'm finding myself thinking sexual thoughts about males and females. I'm also fully aware of anything relating to sexual acts. Is this normal?

Is it possible to break your penis?

When I’m on my period I am always extremely horny! Is this normal?

Is it possible to become pregnant if you’re messing around with your boyfriend, fully clothed, and he ejaculates making his pants and the girl’s pants wet?

I am a 12-year-old boy. Sometimes I get erections for no reason. Is there something wrong?

If you are having sex with a guy and he sticks his penis in you, but does not cum does that still mean you're a vigin? What does it take to not be a virgin?

What exactly is "poppin a cherry,” and does it hurt? Is there anyway I can prepare? (masturbating, etc.)

When I was 9, I found out my dad watches porn movies. I've kept it a secret for four years, but I sneak a few bits of the movies when he's at work. When I watch the videos, I actually like watching them even though it's wrong. After I watch the videos, I feel so ashamed and guilty. Sometimes I cry myself to sleep thinking what I've done. Is it possible that I inherited my dad's genes for this? How I can stop?

I am a strong believer of not having sex before marriage. My boyfriend feels the same way. However, when hormones start raging it can be hard to say “no.” How can we prevent our hormones from making us do something we’ll later regret?

Is it OK to look at other guys in the locker room, just to see if your penis size is normal or not? I don’t usually get hard, sometimes I start, but I don't get extremely hard.

I am a 16 year old male. When I was younger, I think my biological mom’s sisters molested me. My stepmom knows this and I go to counseling, but I have different dreams and flashbacks. I am now interested in sex more because of my ordeal. How did this affect me? How can I forget this? I just want to know any advice you have on forgetting this? and what are the signs of molestation.

Is it normal when you French kiss for the first time that it feels weird? Does this mean something's wrong with me?

What does the term “blue balls” mean?

One of my best friends had sex yesterday for the first time. Since it was her first time, she said it was extremely painful and that she bled a lot after it. I would like to know if having sex for the first time is painful, whether anything can be done to reduce the pain and if it hurts less after your first time.

I’m an uncircumcized male and whenever I get an erection my foreskin gets very tight. Is there anything I can do to alleviate this problem?

I am 13-years-old and I think about sex and really kinky stuff all the time. I've tried telling my friend but she just looks at me funny, laughs and calls me boy crazy. Sometimes I even think about girls (not often). I want to have sex but I’m not going to until I’m married but I think about maybe doing other stuff. Is this normal and what should I do?

I am an 18 year-old boy and I have been with my girlfriend for almost six months. We are both virgins. We feel we are ready for sex, and about three weeks ago we started fooling around. When I asked her if she wanted to have sex she said “yes.” When I got the condom I couldn’t put it one because I only had a halfway erection. I tried using my hand, but that didn't work and neither did my girlfriend's. In the end I got so frantic, I actually ejaculated by mistake. Since then I’ve been unable to obtain a full erection, and when I do, as soon as I start thinking about it, I can't keep it. I thought that maybe it would go away after a little while but it hasn't. My girlfriend is understanding, but I can't talk to anyone about it. I have never ever had a problem with getting an erection before, so I don't know what to do. Can you help?

When my new boyfriend fingers me, I bleed. For the next few days, I bleed just a little more. I have done this before with other boyfriends and haven’t had this problem. Also, I’ve had sex twice and didn't bleed. What’s going on?

Sometimes I fantasize about being intimate with older men such as my Chemistry teacher or a neighbor. I am 17, and I have a wonderful boyfriend. Is this a sign that I'm unhappy about something in my life?

If my boyfriend and I are sitting in the jacuzzi, is it possible for me to get pregnant if he ejaculates in the water?

Exactly what is an orgasm?

I'm a 13 year-old-girl - in the 8th grade. Sometimes, I see movies with sex and things, and sometimes I feel like I need to do it - sex. But, I know I'm too young besides who would like to do it with me! I'm ugly and fat. I often think about having sex it and really want it, is it okay?

When I am engaging in sexual activity with my partner, I get so aroused that my legs begin to shake profusely and my vagina becomes extremely moist. Is there something physically wrong with me?

I am a 15-year-old boy. I get an erection when I see my mother. Is that normal?

If he didn't put it in all the way, could I still be pregnant?

Sometimes I get erections in the locker room. Does that mean I'm gay?

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