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Sep. 02, 2010

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I read on another Web site that when you over-masturbate your penis gets "tired." It can cause losing a couple inches off your penis when you get an erection as well as less ejaculation and a more difficult time getting an erection. What do you think of it?

Does French kissing increase mouth bacteria?

I've just turned 11, but I'm finding myself thinking sexual thoughts about males and females. I'm also fully aware of anything relating to sexual acts. Is this normal?

I am a male and I pee blood directly after sex. This doesn’t happen any other time. What is this?

I know that guys can have orgasms while sleeping, but can girls also have them while sleeping?

Can people masturbate in their sleep? Is it abnormal?

Is it possible to break your penis?

When I’m on my period I am always extremely horny! Is this normal?

I have these little bumps all over my scrotum and the base of my penis. They are the same color as the skin and pretty noticeable. I was wondering if this is normal?

I am a 16-year-old female. I am not sexually active. I found a lump on the inner lip of my vagina. It hurts to touch and it’s skin color. What could this be? An ingrown hair? I’m scared.

I'm a 15-year-old male and I have never had sex. I have small bumps around my penis and they sometimes get swollen like acne and have a white discharge when popped. Are these dangerous?

I am a 12-year-old boy. Sometimes I get erections for no reason. Is there something wrong?

Does masturbation increase the size of the penis? If not what does?

I'm 18 and have been with the same girl for five years. We're both virgins. When is the right time to have sex?

I’m a 14-year-old girl and I believe I'm ready to have sex. I’m not scared about pain, but I’m scared I might get pregnant (a lot of women in my family get pregnant when they lose their virginity). Of course I’ll use a condom but what if it tears? What should I do? Do condoms labeled “ultra thin’ tear more easily?

If you think you're gay should you tell someone? Why? Who? Should you try to date someone in the same sex to find out?

Whenever I masturbate, nothing comes out but a clear liquid. Is this normal?

Is it normal for guys not to be circumcised? Can you get circumcised when you are an adult if you want to? I heard that girls think that it's gross for a guy not to be circumcised?

All my friends have had about 10 boyfriends and have had sex. I don't think I'm ready for sex and I've never had a serious boyfriend. Am I abnormal?

I'm a 14-year-old guy. I’ve had a crush on another guy for two years. Some people found out and told him. He hasn't said anything, but he tries to avoid me. I feel really bad and have been thinking about suicide lately, but I don't think I’ll really do anything. What should I do?

When I was 9, I found out my dad watches porn movies. I've kept it a secret for four years, but I sneak a few bits of the movies when he's at work. When I watch the videos, I actually like watching them even though it's wrong. After I watch the videos, I feel so ashamed and guilty. Sometimes I cry myself to sleep thinking what I've done. Is it possible that I inherited my dad's genes for this? How I can stop?

Is it OK to look at other guys in the locker room, just to see if your penis size is normal or not? I don’t usually get hard, sometimes I start, but I don't get extremely hard.

My semen is a greenish-white color. My friends say their semen is white. Is something wrong with me?

I’m uncircumcised and have noticed a part of my penis under the foreskin is slightly redder than the rest of the penis. Sometimes this red spot is tender to the touch. Is this normal?

When I masturbate, I put foreign objects in my vagina. Can something go wrong when I do this?

What does the term “blue balls” mean?

I am a 16-year-old African American Male. During the past six months, I’ve had problems keeping an erection. I can only become erect when I watch porn, but I have no sexual desire. Is there something I can do or should I go to the doctor?

I am 18 years old and when I was 8, a dog attacked me. He bit me in my groin, and as a result, I lost one of my testicles. My girlfriend wants to have sex, but I am very insecure about this. What should I do?

One of my best friends had sex yesterday for the first time. Since it was her first time, she said it was extremely painful and that she bled a lot after it. I would like to know if having sex for the first time is painful, whether anything can be done to reduce the pain and if it hurts less after your first time.

I am a 13-year-old boy. I don't have wet dreams or anything. Am I developing normally?

What are the emotional consequences of teen sex?

I am 13-years-old and I think about sex and really kinky stuff all the time. I've tried telling my friend but she just looks at me funny, laughs and calls me boy crazy. Sometimes I even think about girls (not often). I want to have sex but I’m not going to until I’m married but I think about maybe doing other stuff. Is this normal and what should I do?

I am an 18 year-old boy and I have been with my girlfriend for almost six months. We are both virgins. We feel we are ready for sex, and about three weeks ago we started fooling around. When I asked her if she wanted to have sex she said “yes.” When I got the condom I couldn’t put it one because I only had a halfway erection. I tried using my hand, but that didn't work and neither did my girlfriend's. In the end I got so frantic, I actually ejaculated by mistake. Since then I’ve been unable to obtain a full erection, and when I do, as soon as I start thinking about it, I can't keep it. I thought that maybe it would go away after a little while but it hasn't. My girlfriend is understanding, but I can't talk to anyone about it. I have never ever had a problem with getting an erection before, so I don't know what to do. Can you help?

When my new boyfriend fingers me, I bleed. For the next few days, I bleed just a little more. I have done this before with other boyfriends and haven’t had this problem. Also, I’ve had sex twice and didn't bleed. What’s going on?

Sometimes I fantasize about being intimate with older men such as my Chemistry teacher or a neighbor. I am 17, and I have a wonderful boyfriend. Is this a sign that I'm unhappy about something in my life?

I am worried that I am not developing enough during puberty. I am a 16-year-old male with a short penis. I think that this could be cause of low testosterone levels. What is the average age that puberty is at a peak and when will I grow. Is there any vitamins or food types that I can take to increase my body’s testosterone?

I’m 13 years old. This school year I had over seven relationships with a boy who hurt and ran over me and dumped me every time. I also lost my virginity to him. I think about him everyday and ask my best friend about him. I still like him but I don’t want go back with him because I know he is still the same. What should I do to get over him?

I'm 17 and a virgin. I've found these little tiny white dots or spots no smaller then a pinhead where the shaft meets the head of the penis. What is this? Could it be a collection of smegma or a virus of some kind?

My friend went to his doctor for his check-up and when the doctor touched my friend's penis, he got an erection and ejaculated. Now I have to go and I don't know what to think. Can you help?

My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for a while now and I love her very much. But she wants to have sex, but I'm not ready. What sort of advice can you give me on avoiding a confrontation about it?

After I finish urinating, my penis stings a little bit. Is this normal?

My period usually only lasts three or four days. This time my period was really heavy the first two days and really light the next four or five days. Also there has been kind of a white almost translucent discharge, it is kind of thick. What could it be?

I have this discharge from my vagina and it's white and thick. My vagina also burns. I'm scared to talk to my mom about it. What can I do?

I have these hard sores around my vagina. They come and go and are like open sores sometimes. What are they and what can I do to make them go away.

Exactly what is an orgasm?

I'm a 13 year-old-girl - in the 8th grade. Sometimes, I see movies with sex and things, and sometimes I feel like I need to do it - sex. But, I know I'm too young besides who would like to do it with me! I'm ugly and fat. I often think about having sex it and really want it, is it okay?

When I am engaging in sexual activity with my partner, I get so aroused that my legs begin to shake profusely and my vagina becomes extremely moist. Is there something physically wrong with me?

I am 16 years old and my penis when erect is only 5”. I have tried a condom, but it is lose. I am ashamed of my penis size. Can I just be growing late, or am I stuck with a small penis?

Is it normal not to masturbate? I am 12.

When I masturbate and reach climax, I have a burning feeling. Kids at school say they do if for hours, but I can't last a few minutes. Why, and what can I do about it? (I haven't had sex yet.)

I am 13 and already started my period. I have had it three times. Now, instead of bleeding, I have a mucus like discharge at the time I should be on my period. I’m not a virgin and I’m not pregnant. Can you tell me what is wrong with me and what I should do?

I am a 15-year-old boy. I get an erection when I see my mother. Is that normal?

I am 14-years-old and am worried because only one of my testicles has dropped, is this normal?

I’ve kind of got a crush on one of my teachers and everybody says she’s gay. I don’t know if it’s true or not but does this mean I might be gay too?

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